"Besides, where do you find a man living off a woman's money?" Xu Ying was imparting her strong views to Lu Daya. "At the least you could say the man is freeloading, but more seriously, it could mean he's incompetent, failing even to earn more than a woman.
How could you expect anything from him? Once you get married, not only will you have to bear children, do the housework, and cook, but you'll also have to run around earning money. Then what use is having a husband at all?" Xu Ying was filling Lu Daya's mind with these intense thoughts.
Lu Daya nodded in agreement.
Xu Ying, still concerned, said, "Just remember, any man who wants to spend your money is a con artist, and a loser at that.
If a man truly loves you, not to mention spending your money, he would move heaven and earth to earn money for you to spend."
Finally, Lu Daya understood. From then on, no man could spend her money.
